{"id":33452103,"date":"2016-09-22T10:21:54","date_gmt":"2016-09-22T09:21:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/?p=33452103"},"modified":"2016-09-22T10:45:32","modified_gmt":"2016-09-22T09:45:32","slug":"shona-rhimes-year","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/2016\/09\/22\/shona-rhimes-year\/","title":{"rendered":"Shonda Rhimes: A Year of Yes"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/files\/\/2016\/09\/yearofyes.jpg\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-33452106\" src=\"http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/files\/\/2016\/09\/yearofyes-300x425.jpg\" alt=\"yearofyes\" width=\"300\" height=\"425\" srcset=\"https:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/files\/2016\/09\/yearofyes-300x425.jpg 300w, https:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/files\/2016\/09\/yearofyes-768x1087.jpg 768w, https:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/files\/2016\/09\/yearofyes-723x1024.jpg 723w, https:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/files\/2016\/09\/yearofyes-1080x1529.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/files\/2016\/09\/yearofyes.jpg 1413w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Term\u00e9szetesen hallottam \u00e9n m\u00e1r kor\u00e1bban Shonda Rhimes nev\u00e9t, aki kital\u00e1lta a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt0413573\" target=\"_blank\">Grace klinik\u00e1<\/a>t \u00e9s a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt1837576\/\" target=\"_blank\">Botr\u00e1ny<\/a>t, de igaz\u00e1b\u00f3l egyik sorozatot se n\u00e9ztem, viszont a ny\u00e1ron Brigi aj\u00e1nl\u00e1s\u00e1ra gyors egym\u00e1sut\u00e1nban v\u00e9gign\u00e9ztem a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt3205802\" target=\"_blank\">Hogyan \u00fasszunk meg egy gyilkoss\u00e1got<\/a> els\u0151 k\u00e9t \u00e9vad\u00e1t. Mert m\u00e1r az els\u0151 r\u00e9szt\u0151l f\u00fcgg\u0151 lettem \u00e9s ki is fejtettem lev\u00e9lben Bridge-nek, hogy szerintem \u00e9n megint megv\u00e1rom, mire teljesen k\u00e9sz lesz a harmadik \u00e9vad is, k\u00fcl\u00f6nben r\u00e9szr\u0151l r\u00e9szre ler\u00e1gom a k\u00f6rm\u00f6met. Na sz\u00f3val Shond\u00e1r\u00f3l annyit tudtam, hogy \u0151 most nagyon ott van a t\u00e9v\u00e9vil\u00e1gban, produkci\u00f3s c\u00e9g\u00e9vel \u0151k uralj\u00e1k a cs\u00fct\u00f6rt\u00f6ki prime time-ot az ABC csatorn\u00e1n\u00e1l. Err\u0151l a k\u00f6nyv\u00e9r\u0151l a Bookriot oldalon olvastam el\u0151sz\u00f6r, ahol t\u00f6bben is aj\u00e1nlgatt\u00e1k, meg a Goodreads szerint is\u00a0pont nekem val\u00f3 lenne, \u00fagyhogy k\u00edv\u00e1ncsi lettem.<\/p>\n<p>Shonda Rhimes a rengeteg munk\u00e1ja \u00e9s a gyereknevel\u00e9s mellett alapvet\u0151en egy introvert\u00e1lt szem\u00e9lyis\u00e9g, aki t\u00f6bbnyire tal\u00e1lt kib\u00fav\u00f3t a k\u00fcl\u00f6nb\u00f6z\u0151 felk\u00e9r\u00e9sek el\u0151l. De r\u00e1d\u00f6bbent, hogy ezzel csak m\u00e9g jobban bez\u00e1rk\u00f3zik mag\u00e1ba, \u00fagyhogy\u00a0fel\u00e1ll\u00edtott mag\u00e1nak egy kih\u00edv\u00e1st: egy \u00e9vig igent mond mindenf\u00e9le kih\u00edv\u00e1sra, egy\u00e1ltal\u00e1n b\u00e1rmilyen k\u00e9r\u00e9sre ami fel\u00e9 j\u00f6n. P\u00e9ld\u00e1ul, hogy besz\u00e9deket mond (amit ut\u00e1lt \u00e9s elutas\u00edtott), megjelenik besz\u00e9lget\u0151s m\u0171sorokban. Kor\u00e1bban ritk\u00e1n tette, olyankor se igazi \u00e9l\u0151 ad\u00e1sban, mert \u00e9l\u0151 ad\u00e1sban f\u00e9lt \u00e9s p\u00e9ld\u00e1ul nem eml\u00e9kezett, hogy viselkedett a felv\u00e9telek k\u00f6zben mert az eg\u00e9szet egy nagy hom\u00e1lynak \u00e9rezte annyira nem tudott csak a saj\u00e1t f\u00e9lelmeire koncentr\u00e1lni. \u00dagyhogy igen, ez az \u00e9v a f\u00e9lelmek legy\u0151z\u00e9s\u00e9r\u0151l is sz\u00f3lt sz\u00e1m\u00e1ra. S elk\u00e9peszt\u0151, hogy csak egy ennyi kis elhat\u00e1roz\u00e1ssal mi mindenre tudta r\u00e1venni mag\u00e1t. Mert Shond\u00e1ban alapvet\u0151en sz\u00f6rnyen er\u0151s a versenyszellem, \u00fagyhogy ez adott neki l\u00f6ketet ahhoz, hogy v\u00e9gigcsin\u00e1lja az \u00e9vet \u00e9s azt\u00e1n hamarosan kider\u00fcl, hogy ez m\u00e1r alapvet\u0151en \u00e9letm\u00f3dv\u00e1lt\u00e1s lett \u00e9s az Igen mond\u00e1s az\u00f3ta is folytat\u00f3dik. Persze ez azt is jelenti, hogy t\u00fal azon, hogy megtanult Igent mondani a felk\u00e9r\u00e9sekre, a kih\u00edv\u00e1sokra megtanult Igent mondani a Nem-re is, teh\u00e1t elfogadni, hogy vannak dolgok amikkel viszont le kell sz\u00e1molni \u00e9s elutas\u00edtani. Igen mondani els\u0151re k\u00f6nny\u0171nek t\u0171nik, azt\u00e1n ugye vannak ezeknek az igeneknek k\u00f6vetkezm\u00e9nyei \u00e9s azokat v\u00e9gig kell k\u00f6vetni. Viszont ha m\u00e1r \u00e9letvitelszer\u0171en mondjuk az Igent, akkor r\u00e1 lehet j\u00f6nni, hogy ez mennyire j\u00f3 \u00e9s eljuttathat olyan sikerekhez (szakmai \u00e9s mag\u00e1n\u00e9leti sikerekhez egyar\u00e1nt), amikre nem is sz\u00e1m\u00edtottunk.\u00dagyhogy igaz\u00e1b\u00f3l a v\u00e9g\u00e9re kider\u00fcl, hogy ez egy ilyen \u00e9letm\u00f3dv\u00e1ltoztat\u00f3s k\u00f6nyv, aminek a pikant\u00e9ri\u00e1ja, hogy h\u00edres ember \u00edrta.<\/p>\n<p>Azt hiszem, hogy Shonda \u00e9lm\u00e9nyei minden olyan n\u0151h\u00f6z sz\u00f3lnak, aki introvert\u00e1lt szem\u00e9lyis\u00e9g, dolgoz\u00f3 n\u0151 \u00e9s anya \u00e9s megpr\u00f3b\u00e1l kil\u00e9pni a komfortz\u00f3n\u00e1j\u00e1b\u00f3l, r\u00e1venni mag\u00e1t olyan dolgokra, amikr\u0151l tudja, hogy j\u00f3 lenne, de sose merte kipr\u00f3b\u00e1lni. R\u00e1ad\u00e1sul Shonda teljesen \u0151szinte, tudja, hogy az \u00e9lete mennyire men\u0151nek t\u0171nik, f\u0151leg egy k\u00edv\u00fcl\u00e1ll\u00f3 szem\u00e9ben, de \u0151 maga sose merte igaz\u00e1n meg\u00e9lni \u00e9s kipr\u00f3b\u00e1lni mindazt a lehet\u0151s\u00e9get, amit ez a privil\u00e9gium (sikeres \u00edr\u00f3, producer, im\u00e1dja a munk\u00e1j\u00e1t, zseni\u00e1lis benne \u00e9s m\u00e9g egy valag p\u00e9nzt is kap \u00e9rte) biztos\u00edtott neki. H\u00e1t most megtette \u00e9s elk\u00e9peszt\u0151en felt\u00f6lt\u0151d\u00f6tt att\u00f3l, hogy mindenre Igen-t mondott, pedig csak annyit csin\u00e1lt, hogy elkezdte \u00e9lni az \u00e9let\u00e9t.<\/p>\n<p>Szerettem hallgatni a k\u00f6nyvet, ugyanis az ugye adott, hogy Shonda j\u00f3l \u00edr, nem hi\u00e1ba ebb\u0151l \u00e9l, hogy gyerekkor\u00e1t\u00f3l t\u00f6rt\u00e9neteket tal\u00e1l ki, amiket eleinte csak elj\u00e1tszott bab\u00e1kkal a kamr\u00e1ban azt\u00e1n pap\u00edrra majd k\u00e9perny\u0151re vetett. A felolvas\u00e1s r\u00e9v\u00e9n pedig teljesen olyan, mintha az ember elmenne k\u00e1v\u00e9zni a bar\u00e1tn\u0151j\u00e9vel \u00e9s meghallgatn\u00e1, hogy mi \u00fajs\u00e1g vele, hogy \u00e1ll az \u00e9lete, miket csin\u00e1lt \u00e9s \u00e9szre se veszi, hogy eltelik j\u00f3 p\u00e1r \u00f3ra \u00e9s kidobj\u00e1k \u0151ket a k\u00e1v\u00e9z\u00f3b\u00f3l. S m\u00e9g ha nem is minden elem\u00e9t lehet hasznos\u00edtani az \u00e9lm\u00e9nyeinek, nagyon j\u00f3l lehet bel\u0151le inspir\u00e1l\u00f3dni. 2017-re m\u00e9g Year of Yes napt\u00e1r is megjelenik, ha valaki szeretn\u00e9 maga is kipr\u00f3b\u00e1lni az Igent mondok egy \u00e9vig milyen v\u00e1ltoz\u00e1st hozhat sz\u00e1m\u00e1ra.<\/p>\n<p>\u00dagyhogy Shonda \u00e9s a st\u00edlusa nagyon bej\u00f6tt nekem, s igen, lehet hogy egyszer m\u00e9g belen\u00e9zek mondjuk a Grace Klinik\u00e1ba is, de legal\u00e1bbis figyelem, hogy mi m\u00e1shoz adja m\u00e9g a nev\u00e9t.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>Kiad\u00f3: Simon &amp; Schuster Audio, Audible<\/em><br \/>\n<em> Megjelen\u00e9s: 2015<\/em><br \/>\n<em> ISBN: 9781442396197<\/em><br \/>\n<em> Honnan: V\u00e1s\u00e1rl\u00e1s, Saj\u00e1t p\u00e9ld\u00e1ny<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/files\/\/2015\/11\/rating-9.gif\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-33450538\" src=\"http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/files\/\/2015\/11\/rating-9.gif\" alt=\"rating-9\" width=\"116\" height=\"12\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"border-radius: 2px; text-indent: 20px; width: auto; padding: 0px 4px 0px 0px; text-align: center; font: bold 11px\/20px 'Helvetica Neue',Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #ffffff; background: #bd081c no-repeat scroll 3px 50% \/ 14px 14px; position: absolute; opacity: 1; z-index: 8675309; display: none; cursor: pointer;\">Save<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"border-radius: 2px; text-indent: 20px; width: auto; padding: 0px 4px 0px 0px; text-align: center; font: bold 11px\/20px 'Helvetica Neue',Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #ffffff; background: #bd081c no-repeat scroll 3px 50% \/ 14px 14px; position: absolute; opacity: 1; z-index: 8675309; display: none; cursor: pointer;\">Save<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"border-radius: 2px; text-indent: 20px; width: auto; padding: 0px 4px 0px 0px; text-align: center; font: bold 11px\/20px 'Helvetica Neue',Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #ffffff; background: #bd081c no-repeat scroll 3px 50% \/ 14px 14px; position: absolute; opacity: 1; z-index: 8675309; display: none; cursor: pointer;\">Save<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"border-radius: 2px; text-indent: 20px; width: auto; padding: 0px 4px 0px 0px; text-align: center; font: bold 11px\/20px 'Helvetica Neue',Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #ffffff; background: #bd081c no-repeat scroll 3px 50% \/ 14px 14px; position: absolute; opacity: 1; z-index: 8675309; display: none; cursor: pointer;\">Save<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"border-radius: 2px; text-indent: 20px; width: auto; padding: 0px 4px 0px 0px; text-align: center; font: bold 11px\/20px 'Helvetica Neue',Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #ffffff; background: #bd081c no-repeat scroll 3px 50% \/ 14px 14px; position: absolute; opacity: 1; z-index: 8675309; display: none; cursor: pointer;\">Save<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"border-radius: 2px; text-indent: 20px; width: auto; padding: 0px 4px 0px 0px; text-align: center; font: bold 11px\/20px 'Helvetica Neue',Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #ffffff; background: #bd081c  no-repeat scroll 3px 50% \/ 14px 14px; position: absolute; opacity: 1; z-index: 8675309; display: none; cursor: pointer;\">Save<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"ubb-final-rating\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/files\/\/2015\/11\/rating-9.gif\" alt=\"4.5 Stars\"><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Term\u00e9szetesen hallottam \u00e9n m\u00e1r kor\u00e1bban Shonda Rhimes nev\u00e9t, aki kital\u00e1lta a Grace klinik\u00e1t \u00e9s a Botr\u00e1nyt, de igaz\u00e1b\u00f3l egyik sorozatot se n\u00e9ztem, viszont a ny\u00e1ron Brigi aj\u00e1nl\u00e1s\u00e1ra gyors egym\u00e1sut\u00e1nban v\u00e9gign\u00e9ztem a Hogyan \u00fasszunk meg egy gyilkoss\u00e1got els\u0151 k\u00e9t \u00e9vad\u00e1t. Mert m\u00e1r az els\u0151 r\u00e9szt\u0151l f\u00fcgg\u0151 lettem \u00e9s ki is fejtettem lev\u00e9lben Bridge-nek, hogy szerintem \u00e9n 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