{"id":531,"date":"2009-09-14T16:26:51","date_gmt":"2009-09-14T15:26:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/2009\/09\/14\/kate_long_rossz_anyak_kezikonyve\/"},"modified":"2016-01-16T17:58:57","modified_gmt":"2016-01-16T16:58:57","slug":"kate_long_rossz_anyak_kezikonyve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/2009\/09\/14\/kate_long_rossz_anyak_kezikonyve\/","title":{"rendered":"Kate Long: Rossz any\u00e1k k\u00e9zik\u00f6nyve"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"A reg\u00e9nnyel m\u00e9g angol c\u00edmmel tal\u00e1lkoztam el\u0151sz\u00f6r \u00e9s t\u00f6bbsz\u00f6r is visszatettem k\u00f6nyvesboltok polc\u00e1ra, mert \u00fagy gondoltam, hogy m\u00e1r \u00e9pp el\u00e9g momlit<\/a> reg\u00e9nyt olvastam. Azt k\u00e9pzeltem, hogy kicsit olyan lehet, mint az Egy rossz anya vallom\u00e1sai<\/a>, vagy a Csirket\u00e1nc <\/a>esetleg a The Secret Life of a Slummy Mummy<\/a>. Am\u00fagy kedvelem ezeket a reg\u00e9nyeket de valahogy nem gy\u0151z\u00f6tt meg teljesen egyszer se a k\u00f6nyv bor\u00edt\u00f3j\u00e1n olvashat\u00f3 sz\u00f6veg, gondoltam biztos csak valami \u00e1ldics\u00e9ret. Azt\u00e1n l\u00e1ttam, hogy leford\u00edtott\u00e1k magyarra, majd megtal\u00e1ltam benn a k\u00f6nyvt\u00e1rban \u00e9s \u00fagy gondoltam tengerpartra kiv\u00e1l\u00f3 kikapcsol\u00f3d\u00e1s lesz. M\u00e9g any\u00f3sjel\u00f6ltem is felh\u00fazta a szem\u00f6ld\u00f6k\u00e9t, amikor megl\u00e1tta mit olvasok. Azt hitte, \u00e1tk\u00e9pzem magam. De megnyugtattam, hogy ez csak egy reg\u00e9ny. Aminek kimondottan j\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Egy \u00e9szak angliai apr\u00f3cska b\u00e1ny\u00e1szfaluban j\u00e1tsz\u00f3dik a t\u00f6rt\u00e9net, 1997-ben, amikor a munk\u00e1sp\u00e1rt ker\u00fcl a hatalomra \u00e9s meghal Lady Di (“Szomor\u00fas\u00e1g \u00e9s b\u0171ntudat szor\u00edtotta \u00f6ssze a mellkasomat. Ha neki nem siker\u00fclt, nek\u00fcnk mekkora az es\u00e9ly\u00fcnk?<\/i>“- gondolja az egyik f\u0151szerepl\u0151, amikor meghallja a h\u00edrt). A r\u00e9g nem m\u0171k\u00f6d\u0151 t\u00e1rn\u00e1k felett lakik h\u00e1rom n\u0151 egy h\u00e1zban: nagymama, anya \u00e9s unoka. A t\u00f6rt\u00e9net r\u00f3luk sz\u00f3l, k\u00e9t meglehet\u0151sen esem\u00e9nyd\u00fas \u00e9v\u00fckr\u0151l. Charlotte, 17 \u00e9ves \u00e9s anyj\u00e1val abban egyet \u00e9rt, hogy egyetlen szabadul\u00e1si lehet\u0151s\u00e9ge innen ha j\u00f3l tanul, s egyetemre mehet. Am\u00fagy semmi m\u00e1sban nincs k\u00f6zt\u00fck b\u00e9ke, elv\u00e9gre \u0151 kamasz, alig is besz\u00e9lgetnek. De hi\u00e1ba a sok tanul\u00e1s, ha \u0151 is \u00fagy j\u00e1r, mint az anyja. Karen ugyanis m\u00e9g csak 33 \u00e9ves \u00e9s annak idej\u00e9n 16 \u00e9vesen esett teherbe, \u00fagy \u00e9rzi, hogy az \u00e9lete akkor lett elrontva, f\u00e9rjhez ment, majd elv\u00e1lt \u00e9s a l\u00e1nya miatt soha nem jutott ki a fojtogat\u00f3 k\u00f6z\u00f6ss\u00e9gb\u0151l, \u00fagy \u00e9rzi pedig, hogy \u0151 nem ide sz\u00fcletett, m\u00e1sra volt hivatott, r\u00e1ad\u00e1sul most m\u00e1r az anyj\u00e1ra is gondot kell viselnie. Nami m\u00e1r elm\u00falt nyolcvan \u00e9s ha mag\u00e1n\u00e1l van nagyon sz\u00f3rakoztat\u00f3 tud lenni, j\u00f3 megl\u00e1t\u00e1sai vannak az \u00e9letr\u0151l, de \u00e1lland\u00f3 fel\u00fcgyeletre szorul, mert ki tudja mikor kezdi el a kuk\u00e1kban keresgetni a csal\u00e1di \u00e9kszereket (amik persze nem l\u00e9teznek). Vil\u00e1gosabb napjaiban visszagondol az \u00e9let\u00e9re, a gyerekkor\u00e1ra, f\u00e9rj\u00e9re, s hogy milyen volt a k\u00e9t vil\u00e1gh\u00e1bor\u00fa k\u00f6z\u00f6tt ugyanitt \u00e9lni. Charlotte bajba ker\u00fcl\u00e9se, egy r\u00e9gi csal\u00e1di titok napf\u00e9nyre ker\u00fcl\u00e9se mindh\u00e1rmuk \u00e9let\u00e9t megv\u00e1ltoztatja, s kil\u00e9pnek a kis k\u00f6z\u00f6ss\u00e9gb\u0151l amire eddig t\u00e1maszkodtak, s megtanulnak m\u00e1sokt\u00f3l is elfogadni bar\u00e1ts\u00e1got, seg\u00edts\u00e9get de a v\u00e9ge mindig az, hogy \u0151k mindh\u00e1rman szeretik a m\u00e1sikat \u00e9s a legt\u00f6bbet egym\u00e1st\u00f3l kaphatnak.<\/p>\n

Azt kell mondanom, hogy nagyon j\u00f3 kis reg\u00e9ny volt. Nem volt humoros, nem volt okoskod\u00f3 \u00e9s helyenk\u00e9nt hat\u00e1rozottan kem\u00e9nyen b\u00e1nt a f\u0151szerepl\u0151kkel, akik mind a saj\u00e1t n\u00e9z\u0151pontjukb\u00f3l komment\u00e1lt\u00e1k az esem\u00e9nyeket.\u00a0 A v\u00e9g\u00e9re a kv\u00e1zi hepiendet kicsit hihetetlennek tal\u00e1lta a p\u00e1rom, aki a v\u00e1llamon kereszt\u00fcl beleolvasva a k\u00f6nyvbe elkobozta t\u0151lem \u00e9s megel\u0151z\u00f6tt a kiolvas\u00e1s\u00e1val, de szerintem a lez\u00e1r\u00e1s is korrekt volt. Abban viszont egyet kell \u00e9rtenem, hogy mintha hasonl\u00f3t m\u00e1r olvastunk volna. A kiad\u00f3nak meg azt h\u00e1nytorgatn\u00e1m fel, hogy ugye 3 n\u0151 mes\u00e9l, amit 3 k\u00fcl\u00f6nb\u00f6z\u0151 bet\u0171t\u00edpussal akartak \u00e9rz\u00e9keltetni, de siker\u00fclt egym\u00e1shoz nagyon k\u00f6zel es\u0151ket tal\u00e1lniuk, \u00fagyhogy el\u0151fordult, hogy b\u00e1r az tiszta volt: n\u00e9z\u0151pont v\u00e1lt\u00e1s t\u00f6rt\u00e9nt (nagy sz\u00fcnet), de hogy ki besz\u00e9l, az csak j\u00f3 p\u00e1r mondat ut\u00e1n der\u00fclt ki. Jobban tetszett volna a karakteresebb font v\u00e1laszt\u00e1s, hogy hamar be lehessen azonos\u00edtani a h\u00e1rom n\u0151 k\u00f6z\u00fcl \u00e9pp ki viszi a pr\u00edmet.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Eredeti c\u00edm: The Bad mother’s handbook
\nKiad\u00f3: Carthapilus K\u00f6nyvkiad\u00f3
\nFord\u00edt\u00f3: L\u00e1z\u00e1r J\u00falia
\nMegjelen\u00e9s: 2009 (2005)
\nTerjedelem: 303 p.
\nISBN: 9789632660141<\/i>
\n
\n<\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

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