{"id":33456944,"date":"2021-11-01T23:15:42","date_gmt":"2021-11-01T21:15:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/?p=33456944"},"modified":"2021-11-01T23:20:09","modified_gmt":"2021-11-01T21:20:09","slug":"jenn-beane-trin-garritano-friendshipping","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/2021\/11\/01\/jenn-beane-trin-garritano-friendshipping\/","title":{"rendered":"Jenn Bane – Trin Garritano: Friendshipping"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\" Amikor elkezdtem Podcastokat halltani, nagyon az elej\u00e9n tal\u00e1ltam r\u00e1 a Friendshipping-re. Aj\u00e1nlottam is \u0151ket nem csak a Popkult, csajok, sat\u00f6bbi-ben t\u00f6bbsz\u00f6r, hanem itt is amikor hallgatnival\u00f3kr\u00f3l<\/a> volt sz\u00f3. Akkor ezt \u00edrtam r\u00f3luk:
\n” K\u00e9t Chicagoban \u00e9l\u0151 l\u00e1ny, Jenn \u00e9s Trin v\u00e1laszolgat hallgat\u00f3i levelekre, amelyek t\u00f6bbnyire a bar\u00e1ts\u00e1ggal kapcsolatosak. Lehet t\u0151l\u00fck k\u00e9rdezni internet bar\u00e1ts\u00e1gr\u00f3l vagy \u00e9ppen arr\u00f3l, hogy \u00e9rdemes-e id\u0151t bele\u00f6lni egy t\u00e1vkapcsolatba \u00e9s mindig nagyon j\u00f3l k\u00f6rbej\u00e1rj\u00e1k a k\u00e9rd\u00e9st. Persze j\u00f3 nagy adag humorral k\u00f6r\u00edtve \u00e9s n\u00e9ha m\u00e9g szerepj\u00e1t\u00e9kban meg is eleven\u00edtik az adott helyzetekre javasolt megold\u00e1saikat, l\u00e9v\u00e9n mindketten az improviz\u00e1ci\u00f3s sz\u00ednh\u00e1z rajong\u00f3i. Valamint a ment\u00e1lis eg\u00e9szs\u00e9g nagy sz\u00f3sz\u00f3l\u00f3i \u00e9s \u00e1lland\u00f3an kiemelik, hogy \u0151k nem szakemberek, s ink\u00e1bb ter\u00e1pi\u00e1ra j\u00e1rjon az, akinek komolyabb panaszai vannak.”<\/em><\/p>\n

Az\u00f3ta is lelkesen hallgattam \u0151ket \u00e9s meg\u00f6r\u00fcltem, amikor 2019 v\u00e9g\u00e9n – 2020 elej\u00e9n mondt\u00e1k, hogy egy k\u00f6nyv\u00f6n dolgoznak. Szerencs\u00e9s voltam, ugyanis a Netgalley-n kaptam bel\u0151le el\u0151olvas\u00f3i p\u00e9ld\u00e1nyt, azt\u00e1n k\u00e9s\u0151bb m\u00e9g a hangosk\u00f6nyvet is lekattintottam, ugyanis ha m\u00e1r \u00fagy ismerkedtem meg a bar\u00e1ts\u00e1g t\u00e9m\u00e1j\u00e1val, hogy \u0151ket hallgattam, k\u00edv\u00e1ncsi voltam, hogy a podcastos dinamik\u00e1jukat hogyan tudj\u00e1k egy szab\u00e1lyozottabb keret k\u00f6z\u00e9 szor\u00edtani.<\/p>\n

Sz\u00f3val bar\u00e1tkozni neh\u00e9z, f\u0151leg feln\u0151ttk\u00e9nt nem egyszer\u0171 komolyabb kapcsolatokat ki\u00e9p\u00edteni. M\u00e1rpedig manaps\u00e1g ide-oda dob\u00e1lja az embert az \u00e9let, neh\u00e9z fenntartani a r\u00e9gi kapcsolatokat \u00e9s m\u00e9g tr\u00fckk\u00f6sebb \u00fajakat ki\u00e9p\u00edteni. Jenn \u00e9s Trin igaz\u00e1b\u00f3l azt csin\u00e1lt\u00e1k, hogy fogt\u00e1k azokat a k\u00e9rd\u00e9seket, amiket \u00e1ltal\u00e1ban kapnak a podcastjukba \u00e9s megn\u00e9zt\u00e9k, hogy mik a k\u00f6z\u00f6s pontok: s ezek alapj\u00e1n \u00edrt\u00e1k meg a k\u00f6nyvet. Teh\u00e1t igaz\u00e1b\u00f3l a t\u00edpusk\u00e9rd\u00e9sekre adnak v\u00e1laszokat. A k\u00f6z\u00f6s benn\u00fck, hogy minden a bar\u00e1ts\u00e1g k\u00f6r\u00fcl forog: ha \u00faj v\u00e1rosba k\u00f6lt\u00f6z\u00f6l, hol \u00e9rdemes ismerkedni? Mennyire j\u00f3 szorosabbra f\u0171zni a kapcsolatot munkat\u00e1rsakkal? Egy\u00e1ltal\u00e1n van-e \u00e9rtelme a munkahelyi bar\u00e1ts\u00e1goknak? Ha m\u00e1r \u00f6sszehaverkodunk valakivel, hogyan tartsuk a kapcsolatot? Mennyire legy\u00fcnk r\u00e1men\u0151sek? Hogyan tartsuk \u00e9letben a t\u00e1vbar\u00e1ts\u00e1gokat? Mennyire vagyunk m\u00e9rgez\u0151 bar\u00e1tok? Sz\u00f3val van \u00f6tlet konfliktuskezel\u00e9sre, tan\u00e1csad\u00e1sra \u00e9s m\u00e9g arra is kit\u00e9rnek, hogyan menedzselj\u00fck, ha p\u00e9nz\u00fcgyek felmer\u00fclnek a bar\u00e1tok k\u00f6zt. S\u0151t m\u00e9g arra is kit\u00e9rnek, hogy mi van, ha a bar\u00e1ts\u00e1gb\u00f3l rom\u00e1nc lesz.<\/p>\n

Ugyan nem \u00fagy k\u00e9sz\u00fclt, de igaz\u00e1b\u00f3l m\u00e9g a COVID id\u0151szak\u00e1ra, a karant\u00e9nra, a k\u00f6telez\u0151 t\u00e1vols\u00e1gtart\u00e1sra is lehet alkalmazni egy csom\u00f3 \u00f6tletet bel\u0151le, f\u0151leg arr\u00f3l, hogyan lehet kapcsolatot tartani t\u00e1vol l\u00e9v\u0151 bar\u00e1tokkal, vagy \u00e9ppen mik\u00e9nt vonjuk magunkat mi ki ha t\u00fals\u00e1gosan sok lenne a t\u00e1rsas \u00e9rintkez\u00e9s. Sz\u00f3val a k\u00f6tet ad tippeket extrovert\u00e1ltaknak \u00e9s introvert\u00e1ltaknak egyar\u00e1nt.
\nSz\u00f3val abszol\u00fat gyakorlatias k\u00f6nyv ez, kiv\u00e1l\u00f3 \u00f6tletekkel \u00e9s nagyon szerettem hallgatni is szok\u00e1s szerint Jenn \u00e9s Trin hangj\u00e1t. Persze nem volt annyira spont\u00e1n \u00e9s \u00f6r\u00f6mteli, mint a podcastjukban, viszont j\u00f3val \u00f6sszeszedettebb \u00e9s kev\u00e9sb\u00e9 csapong\u00f3 t\u00e9nyleg hasznos \u00e9s gyakorlatias tan\u00e1csokkal teli.<\/p>\n

Mire meg\u00edrtam illetve publik\u00e1lom ezt az \u00e9rt\u00e9kel\u00e9st, az\u00f3ta maga a podcast megsz\u0171nt<\/a>. Pontosabban \u00faj r\u00e9szeket m\u00e1r nem gy\u00e1rtanak a l\u00e1nyok. A ny\u00e1r folyam\u00e1n \u00fagy d\u00f6nt\u00f6ttek, ink\u00e1bb csak h\u00edrlev\u00e9lben v\u00e1laszolgatnak a bar\u00e1ts\u00e1ggal kapcsolatos k\u00e9rd\u00e9sekre. A r\u00e9gi ad\u00e1sokat m\u00e9g \u00edgy is meg lehet hallgatni, illetve fel lehet iratkozni heti egy e-mailt kapni t\u0151l\u00fck, amiben v\u00e1laszolnak bar\u00e1tkoz\u00e1ssal kapcsolatos aktu\u00e1lis k\u00e9rd\u00e9sekre. Nekem az a gyan\u00fam, hogy az \u00edr\u00e1st \u00e9s a k\u00f6z\u00f6s munk\u00e1t nem hagyj\u00e1k abba, \u00fagyhogy biztos vagyok benne, lehet majd m\u00e9g hallani fel\u0151l\u00fck.<\/p>\n

Nagyon szerettem az ad\u00e1saikat \u00e9s ezt a k\u00f6nyvet is aj\u00e1nlom azoknak, akik k\u00fcl\u00f6nb\u00f6z\u0151 \u00f6tleteket szeretn\u00e9nek gy\u0171jteni arr\u00f3l, hogyan \u00e9rdemes ezekben az \u00e9rdekes id\u0151kben t\u00e1rsas\u00e1gi \u00e9letet fenntartani, \u00faj emberekkel ismerkedni, fel\u00fcletes dolgokat elm\u00e9ly\u00edteni, s ezeket karban tartani.
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Amikor elkezdtem Podcastokat halltani, nagyon az elej\u00e9n tal\u00e1ltam r\u00e1 a Friendshipping-re. Aj\u00e1nlottam is \u0151ket nem csak a Popkult, csajok, sat\u00f6bbi-ben t\u00f6bbsz\u00f6r, hanem itt is amikor hallgatnival\u00f3kr\u00f3l volt sz\u00f3. Akkor ezt \u00edrtam r\u00f3luk: ” K\u00e9t Chicagoban \u00e9l\u0151 l\u00e1ny, Jenn \u00e9s Trin v\u00e1laszolgat hallgat\u00f3i levelekre, amelyek t\u00f6bbnyire a bar\u00e1ts\u00e1ggal kapcsolatosak. Lehet t\u0151l\u00fck k\u00e9rdezni internet bar\u00e1ts\u00e1gr\u00f3l vagy \u00e9ppen 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