{"id":33455193,"date":"2019-02-13T10:18:20","date_gmt":"2019-02-13T08:18:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/?p=33455193"},"modified":"2019-02-13T10:18:20","modified_gmt":"2019-02-13T08:18:20","slug":"legjobb-baratnok-napja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/2019\/02\/13\/legjobb-baratnok-napja\/","title":{"rendered":"Legjobb bar\u00e1tn\u0151k napja"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>P\u00e1r \u00e9ve volt, hogy \u00edrtam m\u00e1r egy bejegyz\u00e9st, ami Febru\u00e1r 13-hoz, azaz a Galentine&#8217;s Day-hez kapcsol\u00f3dik. Ez az a nap, a Valentin nap el\u0151tt, amikor a legjobb bar\u00e1tn\u0151ket lehet \u00fcnnepelni, de legal\u00e1bbis \u00f6sszej\u00f6nni vel\u00fck egy vill\u00e1sreggeli erej\u00e9ig. Mindez a V\u00e1rosfejleszt\u00e9si oszt\u00e1ly sorozatb\u00f3l ered (m\u00e1sodik \u00e9vad 16. r\u00e9sz, ahol el\u0151sz\u00f6r felt\u0171nik az esem\u00e9ny).<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/nbc-leslie-knope-galentines-day-26xBSHuu9Pcck1TRm<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Mindenki tudja, hogy febru\u00e1r 14-\u00e9n B\u00e1lint napon a szerelmeseket \u00fcnnepelik szerte a vil\u00e1gban. Viszont azt m\u00e1r kevesebben, hogy Leslie Knope javaslat\u00e1ra febru\u00e1r 13-t sokan a N\u0151i bar\u00e1ts\u00e1gok napj\u00e1nak tartj\u00e1k, ahol a csajok egym\u00e1ssal t\u00f6ltenek id\u0151t. Galentine\u2019s Day int\u00e9zm\u00e9ny\u00e9t Pawnee-ban vezette be el\u0151sz\u00f6r (igen, a V\u00e1rosfejleszt\u00e9si Oszt\u00e1lyon illetve a Parks and Recreaction sorozatban, s mivel nem tudom magyarul hogy ford\u00edtott\u00e1k egyel\u0151re az angol kifejez\u00e9sn\u00e9l maradok), s ennek tisztelet\u00e9re gondoltam \u00f6sszegy\u0171jt\u00f6k p\u00e1r k\u00f6nyvet, amelyekben fontos szerepe van a n\u0151i bar\u00e1ts\u00e1goknak. Mert azt igaz\u00e1n neh\u00e9z b\u00e1rmivel is helyettes\u00edteni \u00e9s \u00f6r\u00fclj\u00f6n mindenki, ha vannak k\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00f6tte olyan csajok, akikkel boldogs\u00e1g egy\u00fctt lenni.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Mivel m\u00e1r <a href=\"http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/2016\/02\/13\/fabruar-13-galentines-day\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">h\u00e1rom \u00e9ve<\/a> \u00edrtam ezt a bejegyz\u00e9st, s az\u00f3ta is tal\u00e1lkoztam j\u00f3 p\u00e1r a n\u0151i bar\u00e1ts\u00e1g sz\u00e9p vagy \u00e9ppen neh\u00e9z oldal\u00e1r\u00f3l sz\u00f3l\u00f3 k\u00f6nyvvel, gondoltam megint aj\u00e1nlok egy sort bel\u0151l\u00fck.<\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-33455202\" src=\"http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/files\/\/2019\/02\/Gday-1024x559.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"559\" srcset=\"http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/files\/2019\/02\/Gday-1024x559.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/files\/2019\/02\/Gday-300x164.jpg 300w, http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/files\/2019\/02\/Gday-768x419.jpg 768w, http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/files\/2019\/02\/Gday.jpg 1320w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><br \/>\nNemr\u00e9g olvastam v\u00e9gre \u00e9n is Edward Kelsey Moore <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/23975591\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Szikomorf\u00e1n sz\u00fclettem<\/a> c\u00edm\u0171 reg\u00e9ny\u00e9t, amely h\u00e1rom l\u00e1ny bar\u00e1ts\u00e1g\u00e1t \u00f6leli fel t\u00f6bb \u00e9vtizeden kereszt\u00fcl az amerikai D\u00e9l egyik kisv\u00e1ros\u00e1ban. Van benne el\u00e9g sok kem\u00e9ny dolog, ugyanakkor ami v\u00e9gig szil\u00e1rd benne az a h\u00e1rom n\u0151 \u00f6sszetart\u00e1sa.<\/p>\n<p>A reg\u00e9ny, amit mindig aj\u00e1nlok, ha bar\u00e1ts\u00e1gr\u00f3l van sz\u00f3, a csod\u00e1latos <a href=\"http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/2015\/07\/01\/elizabeth-wein-fedoneve-verity\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Fed\u0151neve: Verity<\/a>, amely sajnos itthon nem lett olyan nagy siker, hogy a folytat\u00e1sa is megjelenjen, pedig abban m\u00e9g t\u00f6bb n\u0151i \u00f6sszetart\u00e1s van, elv\u00e9gre <a href=\"http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/2014\/06\/10\/elizabeth-wein-rose-fire\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Ravensbr\u00fcck<\/a>ben j\u00e1tsz\u00f3dik.<\/p>\n<p>Az ut\u00f3bbi \u00e9vek nagy sikere lett itthon is <em>Elena Ferrante N\u00e1polyi reg\u00e9nyek<\/em> sorozata, amelyb\u0151l \u00e9n egyel\u0151re m\u00e9g csak a <a href=\"http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/2016\/12\/15\/elena-ferrante-brilians-baratnom\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Brili\u00e1ns bar\u00e1tn\u0151m<\/a>et olvastam. De most m\u00e1r kiv\u00e1rom a negyedik r\u00e9szt is \u00e9s ut\u00e1na majd r\u00f6vid sz\u00fcnetekkel igyekszem legy\u0171rni, mert tartottam att\u00f3l, hogy ha az 1-1 \u00e9vet kihagyom a megjelen\u0151 r\u00e9szek k\u00f6z\u00f6tt akkor nem fogok eml\u00e9kezni minden szerepl\u0151re, m\u00e1rpedig m\u00e1r az els\u0151 r\u00e9sz is el\u00e9g sz\u00e9les tabl\u00f3val dolgozott. Mindenesetre ez a reg\u00e9nysorozat nagyon kiv\u00e1l\u00f3an \u00e1br\u00e1zolja<\/p>\n<p>Eg\u00e9szen meglep\u0151 volt, hogy Jane Fallon s\u00f6t\u00e9t t\u00f3nus\u00fa chick litj\u00e9ben, a <a href=\"http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/2018\/03\/19\/jane-fallon-szabadulj-meg-pasitol\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Szabadulj meg a pasit\u00f3l!<\/a>ban az egyik legizgalmasabb \u00e9s legjobb r\u00e9sz a k\u00e9t n\u0151 bar\u00e1ts\u00e1g\u00e1r\u00f3l sz\u00f3lt, amely enyh\u00e9n sz\u00f3lva is fura k\u00f6r\u00fclm\u00e9nyek k\u00f6z\u00f6tt bontakozott ki, de mindkettej\u00fck \u00e9let\u00e9ben a legjobb dolog lett.<\/p>\n<p>Itthon el\u0151bb volt a t\u00e9v\u00e9sorozat, azt\u00e1n jelent meg a k\u00f6nyv, \u00e9n csak az ut\u00f3bbit olvastam, s a <a href=\"http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/2017\/05\/08\/lianne-moriarty-big-lies\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Hatalmas kis hazugs\u00e1gok<\/a>ban is eg\u00e9szen jelent\u0151s szerepet kapnak a n\u0151k k\u00f6z\u00f6tti kapcsolatok \u00e9s hogy kib\u0151l hogy lehet bar\u00e1tn\u0151, s ha az lesz akkor az mivel j\u00e1r.<\/p>\n<p>Szerencs\u00e9re fiatal fejjel is lehet j\u00f3 bar\u00e1tn\u0151kr\u0151l olvasni, nekem anno az eg\u00e9sz l\u00e1nykorom arr\u00f3l sz\u00f3lt, h\u00e1la a cs\u00edkos \u00e9s p\u00f6tty\u00f6s k\u00f6nyveknek, de manaps\u00e1g is van j\u00f3 p\u00e1r reg\u00e9ny, amelyben ezek a legfontosabb kapcsolatok. P\u00e9ld\u00e1ul a csod\u00e1latos, l\u00edrai <a href=\"http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/2017\/10\/27\/ali-benjamin-suzy-es-meduzak\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Suzy \u00e9s a med\u00faz\u00e1k<\/a> amely a v\u00e1ltoz\u00e1sr\u00f3l \u00e9s az elt\u00e1volod\u00e1sr\u00f3l is sz\u00f3l, ami a feln\u00f6v\u00e9ssel j\u00e1r.<\/p>\n<p>Nagyon szerettem <a href=\"http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/2016\/10\/14\/julie-murphy-dumplin\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Julie Murphy: Dumplin&#8217;<\/a>-j\u00e1t (hamarosan a mozikban!), amely szint\u00e9n el\u00e9g rendesen \u00fcnnepli a bar\u00e1ts\u00e1got a l\u00e1nyok k\u00f6z\u00f6tt.<br \/>\nJ\u00f3val k\u00f6nnyedebb t\u00e9m\u00e1j\u00fa b\u00e1jos reg\u00e9ny a <a href=\"http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/2018\/10\/02\/stacia-deutsch-%e2%80%8bbaratsagkod\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Bar\u00e1ts\u00e1gk\u00f3d<\/a>, amelynek id\u00e9n j\u00f6n a folytat\u00e1sa is.<\/p>\n<p>Ja \u00e9s ha m\u00e9g k\u00e9rd\u00e9ses lenne, hogy mi\u00e9rt is j\u00f3 n\u0151kkel bar\u00e1tkozni, meg saj\u00e1t nem\u00fcnket tiszteletben tartani \u00e9s seg\u00edteni, akkor aj\u00e1nlom Roxane Gay essz\u00e9j\u00e9t arr\u00f3l, <a href=\"https:\/\/jezebel.com\/how-to-be-friends-with-another-woman-5941016\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">hogyan legy\u00fcnk j\u00f3ban<\/a> egy m\u00e1sik n\u0151vel.\u00a0 Az essz\u00e9 olvashat\u00f3 am\u00fagy a <a href=\"http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/2016\/02\/18\/roxane-gay-bad-feminist\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Bad Feminist<\/a> c\u00edm\u0171 k\u00f6nyv\u00e9ben is.<\/p>\n<p>De ha nem olvasgatni akarsz a bar\u00e1ts\u00e1gr\u00f3l, hanem hallgatni, akkor el\u0151sz\u00f6r is aj\u00e1nlom a Popkult, csajok, sat\u00f6bbi podcast <a href=\"https:\/\/popkultcsajoksatobbi.wordpress.com\/2016\/06\/30\/bff-a-64-epizod\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">legjobb bar\u00e1tok<\/a>r\u00f3l sz\u00f3l\u00f3 ad\u00e1s\u00e1t, illetve a <a href=\"https:\/\/friendshipping.simplecast.fm\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Friendshipping!<\/a> podcast teljes reperto\u00e1rj\u00e1t, amelyben Jenn \u00e9s Trin tan\u00e1csokat ad arr\u00f3l, hogy legy\u00fcnk j\u00f3 bar\u00e1tok.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>P\u00e1r \u00e9ve volt, hogy \u00edrtam m\u00e1r egy bejegyz\u00e9st, ami Febru\u00e1r 13-hoz, azaz a Galentine&#8217;s Day-hez kapcsol\u00f3dik. Ez az a nap, a Valentin nap el\u0151tt, amikor a legjobb bar\u00e1tn\u0151ket lehet \u00fcnnepelni, de legal\u00e1bbis \u00f6sszej\u00f6nni vel\u00fck egy vill\u00e1sreggeli erej\u00e9ig. Mindez a V\u00e1rosfejleszt\u00e9si oszt\u00e1ly sorozatb\u00f3l ered (m\u00e1sodik \u00e9vad 16. r\u00e9sz, ahol el\u0151sz\u00f6r felt\u0171nik az esem\u00e9ny). https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/nbc-leslie-knope-galentines-day-26xBSHuu9Pcck1TRm Mindenki tudja, 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