{"id":276,"date":"2006-10-15T09:23:25","date_gmt":"2006-10-15T07:23:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/2006\/10\/15\/libby_purves_hogyan_ne_legyunk_tokeletes_anyak\/"},"modified":"2015-11-28T22:39:29","modified_gmt":"2015-11-28T21:39:29","slug":"libby_purves_hogyan_ne_legyunk_tokeletes_anyak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/olvasonaplo.net\/olvasonaplo\/2006\/10\/15\/libby_purves_hogyan_ne_legyunk_tokeletes_anyak\/","title":{"rendered":"Libby Purves: Hogyan ne legy\u00fcnk t\u00f6k\u00e9letes any\u00e1k?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\n<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/files\/konyv2006\/tokeletesanyak.jpg\" align=\"left\" width=\"204\" height=\"319\" \/>Libby Purves a BBC 4-en m\u0171sorvezet\u0151, s k\u00e9t gyermek anyjak\u00e9nt \u00edrta meg ezt a t\u00fal\u00e9l\u0151 k\u00f6nyvet, kezd\u0151 any\u00e1knak. Amiben elt\u00e9r a komoly hangv\u00e9tel\u0171 gyereknevel\u00e9si k\u00f6nyvekt\u0151l, hogy k\u00f6nnyed\u00e9n, humorosan l\u00e1ttatja az anyas\u00e1ggal, az els\u0151 3 \u00e9vvel j\u00e1r\u00f3 gondokat. Nem \u00e1ll\u00edt fel \u00e1ltal\u00e1nos szab\u00e1lyokat, csak le\u00edrja saj\u00e1t \u00e9s a bar\u00e1ti k\u00f6r\u00e9nek tapasztalatait, s a v\u00e9gs\u0151 k\u00f6vetkeztet\u00e9s az, hogy nem \u00e9rdemes mereven ragaszkodni hagyom\u00e1nyokhoz, hanem a j\u00f3zan \u00e9sz hat\u00e1rain bel\u00fcl mindenki alak\u00edtsa \u00fagy az \u00e9let\u00e9t \u00e9s a gyermekei\u00e9t, hogy mindenkinek a legkellemesebb legyen.\n<\/p>\n<p>\nUgyanakkor teli van jobbn\u00e1l jobb \u00f6tletekkel, ami nem biztos, hogy mindenkinek esz\u00e9be jutott volna, de olvasva, hogy m\u00e1sn\u00e1l bev\u00e1lt sorra d\u00f6bbentem r\u00e1, hogy j\u00e9\u00e9\u00e9, ez nem is butas\u00e1g.\n<\/p>\n<p>\nPersze vannak nagyon olyan tan\u00e1csok \u00e9s megjegyz\u00e9sek, amik igaz\u00e1n az angliai helyzetre alkalmazhat\u00f3ak (a dad\u00e1k \u00e9s b\u00e9biszitterek h\u00e1l\u00f3zata, a b\u00f6lcs\u00f6d\u00e9k \u00e9s \u00f3vod\u00e1k hi\u00e1nya, lak\u00e1sbeoszt\u00e1s stb.), de a l\u00e9nyeget ki lehet sz\u0171rni bel\u0151le. Nem szabad stresszelni, s a t\u00f6k\u00e9letess\u00e9gre t\u00f6rekedni, mert \u00fagy csak a saj\u00e1t dolgunkat nehez\u00edtj\u00fck meg.\n<\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/files\/rating-10.gif\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Libby Purves a BBC 4-en m\u0171sorvezet\u0151, s k\u00e9t gyermek anyjak\u00e9nt \u00edrta meg ezt a t\u00fal\u00e9l\u0151 k\u00f6nyvet, kezd\u0151 any\u00e1knak. Amiben elt\u00e9r a komoly hangv\u00e9tel\u0171 gyereknevel\u00e9si k\u00f6nyvekt\u0151l, hogy k\u00f6nnyed\u00e9n, humorosan l\u00e1ttatja az anyas\u00e1ggal, az els\u0151 3 \u00e9vvel j\u00e1r\u00f3 gondokat. Nem \u00e1ll\u00edt fel \u00e1ltal\u00e1nos szab\u00e1lyokat, csak le\u00edrja saj\u00e1t \u00e9s a bar\u00e1ti k\u00f6r\u00e9nek tapasztalatait, s a v\u00e9gs\u0151 k\u00f6vetkeztet\u00e9s az, 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